Dad: "Yeah sure, what is it?"...
Son: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
Dad: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?"
Son: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?"
Dad: "If you must know, I make $100 an hour."
Son: "Oh! (With his head down).
Son: "Daddy, may I please borrow $50?"
The father was furious.
Dad: "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior."
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.
The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:
Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $ 50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
Dad: "Are you asleep, son?"
Son: "No daddy, I'm awake".
Dad: "I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $50 you asked for."
The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
Son: "Oh, thank you daddy!"
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
Dad: "Why do you want more money if you already have some?"
Son: "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do.
"Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you."
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.
Do remember to share that $100 worth of your time with someone you love? If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family and friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
Some things are more important.
Courtesy of Cop Humor
It's a hard balancing act but definitely something to think about!
Beautiful. Like Harry Chapins's song, Cats in the Cradle. We all need reminders to slow down and take the time to do what is important. Thanks for the reminder.
ReplyDeleteHey Sunny...Harry Chapin's "Cats in the Cradle" is a hauntingly beautiful but very sad song. I needed this reminder as much as anyone.
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Cat
So true, it's hard to believe at times, but we are so replaceable at work, but never will be to our families. Thank you for the thoughts. :)
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome Es May...sometimes we forget just how replaceable we are in the workplace.
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Cat
This was so sweet - I loved that I didn't see the end coming, so it totally melted my heart. Thanks Cat, as always, for making us pause and think or stop and smile.
ReplyDelete:) Cali
Hey Cali...So happy you enjoyed it!
DeleteBlessings,
Cat
This was both sweet and very poignant. It's true, we do tend to poor more of ourselves into work than family. A great message. Thanks for the reminder Cat
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Roz
You're welcome Roz...I needed this reminder as much or more than anyone else!
DeleteHugs and Blessings,
Cat
Aw this is so sweet Cat...the picture too:)
ReplyDeleteHappy you enjoyed them Tess...the picture came in the email and I thought it was just so perfect!
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Cat
Oh Cat, that was so sweet, and sad :(
ReplyDeletelove Jan.xx
Hey Jan...It is sad in a way but at the same time it is sweet that his son is still asking for his company so he has a chance to turn things around!
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Cat
this made me cry. a sweet and true reminder of what is important in life
ReplyDeleteAww Terps...I'm so sorry it made you cry. It is definitely a reminder of what's important.
DeleteHugs and Blessings,
Cat