A casual acquaintance who thinks she is soooo naughty...recently sent this article to a group of us to "further our education" ROFLMBO! Actually, I think she was trying to either 'shock' us or show us just how 'bad' she is. *giggle* Wonder if I ought to give her the link to some of our blogs. Guess I could just loan her a few books written my some of my favorite authors here in blog land. *snicker*
Sex can be exciting with your new guy for a while, but then
it starts to get boring. Same position, same location, same time. What can you
do to spice things up? Add some sex toys to the mix. Sure, the thought of sex
toys can make even the naughtiest girl blush, but they can help you achieve pleasure
like you've never felt before.
If you're looking to improve your sex life and give it that
boost it needs, try out these 8 sex toys that every woman should own.
The Vibrator
The most common sex toy, the vibrator, is one that every
women wants in her pleasure chest. Sure, it's basic, but it's a good toy to
start out with, especially if you're experimenting with sex toys for the first
time. There are many types of vibrators, and they come in many sizes. When
choosing a product, look for one that is fairly quiet and effective in
stimulating the clitoris area.
You should also look at features such as the ability to
adjust the intensity and speed. Many women hop all over The Rabbit vibrator
because it creates sensation in the vagina as well as the clitoris. You can
even buy a waterproof Rabbit, so it can be used anywhere you feel the urge.
The Couple's Vibrator
A couples' vibrator is a good choice if you have trouble
experiencing orgasm during intercourse. A couple's vibrator is smaller than a
regular vibrator and allows you just enough extra penetration to get the job
done, so to speak. Its smaller size doesn't interfere with your partner's
rhythm, and its vibrations may even enhance your partner's experience,
guaranteeing a good time for both of you.
The G-Spot Wand
A G-spot wand is essential if you are looking for something
like a vibrator but without the vibrating. A G-spot wand is made of heavy-duty
stainless steel (used for hip replacements) and is curved for your added
pleasure. It's perfect if you enjoy ample penetration. The NJOY Pure wand comes
highly recommended on many websites. According to many users, the name says it
all.
The Silver Bullet
If you are more into clitoral stimulation, a silver bullet
may be just what you need. A silver bullet is an egg-shaped metal device that
is basic and cheap but definitely hits the spot. You use it directly on your
clitoris and can adjust the pressure by using the attached remote. Definitely a
hands-down favorite for many women!
The Cock Ring
How about a toy for your man? Aptly called the Big O
Vibrating Ring, this device can help both of you experience greater sexual
pleasure. Placed on the base of the man's penis before it becomes erect, a cock
ring allows blood to flow into the penis but not outward.
This vibrating ring helps the penis sustain a harder
erection and stimulates the clitoris during intercourse. Most are made of
rubber or steel. Keep in mind that a cock ring must be sized carefully, or they
can result in a too-erect penis, which can be painful and embarrassing,
requiring a trip to the doctor. However, for those who use this toy properly,
it is a fun way to enhance any sexual relationship.
Anal Beads
For those looking to experiment with anal sex, start with
anal beads. Made of silicone, the beads come in various sizes, so beginners as
well as pros can experiment with them. Just add some lubrication, and they can
be used for both men and women.
Lubricants
A little lubrication can definitely go a long way. Whether
you're feeling dry as the desert down there or looking to experiment with anal
sex, a lubricant is effective in increasing pleasure. Lubricant is a jelly used
to replace or supplement a woman's vaginal lubrication.
In the past, oil-based lubricants were in demand. However,
they created bacteria inside a woman's vagina. They also destroyed latex,
making them impossible to use with condoms. Therefore, it is recommended to use
water-based lubricants only. When used inside a condom, lubricants can make
sensations even stronger for the man.
Interesting note: although most people use regular KY Jelly
for sexual intercourse, KY Jelly is actually made for the medical environment
and is not long-lasting. Therefore, you should choose another brand, one made
specifically for sex, such as Astroglide or Aqualube.
The Blindfold
How about using something in the bedroom that's as simple
and easily available as a blindfold? Probably not the kinkiest type of sex toy
available, but a blindfold creates an element of surprise, which can be
incredibly sexy. Imagine the excitement you will feel by not being able to see
what your partner will do next. Blindfolds, especially silk ones, can make
bedtime much more exciting and allow your imagination to run wild.
One of the hurdles you may face when using sex toys is that
your partner may disapprove of them. He may feel embarrassed or upset that he
cannot satisfy you fully. He may view sex toys as a replacement for him.
Therefore, it's important to let him know the benefits of you using sex toys.
By using them, you are finding out what turns you on, where you like being touched
and the intensity at which you enjoy it.
Sex toys can help you become more familiar with your body.
If you can't pleasure yourself, then how can you expect your man to? You need
to convince your guy that using sex toys will make your sex life better in the
long run. They can spark your imagination and make sex much more fun and
exciting every time.
Let's face it; achieving an orgasm makes a woman feel
sexier, happier and more feminine. And what could be wrong with that? When you
learn how to pleasure yourself, you're helping your partner in the process.
But, thanks to those friends, I don’t feel nearly alone as I did a year ago.
