Answers

The following is a bit of a rant so if you don’t want to read it, feel free to skip on down and read the giggle I have for you.

I have received several emails from people who have taken offense to comments I have left on other blogs. I have respectfully responded to those who seem to actually want a conversation and have ignored those that use foul language and just attack.  

I’m beginning to think that the nastier emails are from the same few, possibly group of, people because the email addresses are bogus. The following is the latest ‘bogus’ email I received.  Of course, there was no signature on this email or any of the others. Go figure…  

I have copied/pasted the email so the spelling and word usage are the original. I did insert *’s in the vulgar words as the author had spelled them out and I really don’t want that kind of language on my blog.

I have seen you all over the different blogs giving unwanted and b*llsh*t advice to wives and girlfriends.  You even have the b*lls to dare to give advice to the HoH’s but nowhere do I find any information about you. Who the f*ck are you? What right do you have to open your f*cking big mouth and give anyone else advice when no one knows anything about your life? You don’t post anything on your blog about your personal life you f*cking *itch. Ooh yea, I forgot, you posted somewhere that you had been in an abusive relationship boohoo for you. Are you even involved in a TTWD relationship? Are you a f*cking d*ke *itch with no c*ck? Why don’t you just delete your cr*ppy b*llsh*t pretendshious blog and stick a big a** d*ldoe in your mouth and go petal your fony blessings some place else.

I have decided to respond on my blog this one time. 

To the trolls who keep sending these emails, my personal life is none of your business. If you do not like my comments, don’t read them…see how simple that is. My blog is what I want to share, again, if you don’t like it…don’t read it. So very simple… From now on, I will delete your email without reading it.   If you leave nasty comments on my blog, I will turn moderation back on and delete your comments.  Here’s your sign…

Some of my friends know parts of my life, some know most and some don’t know any (they haven’t asked LOL).  I shared my past in some chats but really don’t remember who knows which part.  I received an email the other day with some questions from a friend and a Christmas card from another friend addressed to me and hubby which made me realize that some of my friends may need a bit more info.  So, for my curious friends, you can click 'My Life' under 'Pages' on the top right of the blog.   

Otherwise, just enjoy the following giggle.

Bells…
A Fireman came home from work one day and told his wife, "You know, we have a wonderful system at the fire station: BELL 1 rings and we all put on our jackets, BELL 2 rings and we all slide down the pole, BELL 3 rings and we're on the fire truck ready to go. 
 
"From now on when I say BELL 1, I want you to strip naked. 

When say BELL 2, I want you to jump in bed. 

And when I say BELL 3, we are going to make love all night."
 
The next night he came home from work and yelled, "BELL 1!" The wife promptly took all her clothes off. 
 
When he yelled "BELL 2!", the wife jumped into bed. 
 
When he yelled "BELL 3!", they began making love. 
 
After a few minutes the wife yelled "BELL 4!" 

"What the hell is BELL 4?" asked the husband? 
 
"ROLL OUT MORE HOSE," she replied, "YOU'RE NOWHERE NEAR THE FIRE!"
 

Trolls

No, I have not been bothered by trolls again but several of my friends in blogland have been. If you have been bothered by them, feel free to copy this picture and post it on your site. ;-)



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16 and Pregnant – Revisited

When I posted the picture yesterday, I really didn’t think it needed any explanation, thought it stood on its own. Now however, for reasons I’ll go into a bit later, I’ve decided to give a bit of background and thought process behind my previous post.

I was having dinner in a very nice restaurant several days ago when I overheard the following conversation:

Mother: Are you having sex with that boy?

Daughter: It’s none of your business bitch!

Father: If you get pregnant, it is our business! (What! It’s only your business if she gets pregnant? You’re not going to say anything about her calling her mother that!??? Mom? Nothing to say!???)

Mother: I’m not raising any more kids and you are only 15 years old. What are you going to do if you get pregnant?

Daughter: I’ll just go on that program “16 and Pregnant” or that other one “Teen Mom”. They pay those girls good money and they have their own apartments, nice cars, don’t have to work and sure don’t have to put up with any crap from their stupid parents!

Mother: Fine, just don’t expect any help from us.

They then continued eating their dinner. My friend and I just looked at each other. Neither one of us could believe that conversation. We both commented on how that conversation would have way different if we were that girl talking to our parents or if we were that mother and she was our daughter.

We then started discussing how those programs which proponents claim are a deterrent to teen pregnancy actually seem to be the opposite (maybe not but I don't think they stop teens from anything).

Having raised two teens (yes they did survive to become lovely young men), I know that teens have a mentality of “that won’t happen to me!” Tell them they need to wear a seat belt because statistics show there is a much higher chance of survival and less injury in an accident and their thought process is “won't happen to me”. Tell them they need to wear a seat belt or you’re pulling their keys for a month – guess who is wearing a seat belt! Teens think they are invincible and nothing bad will happen to them. So when I saw that picture, I thought, isn’t that perfect, wouldn’t it be nice to have some television shows that depicted teens and young adults striving for a goal.

There was no ulterior motive to trash, bash, or in any way denigrate teen mothers. No, a young girl who gets pregnant should not be locked away, thrown out of the house, considered to be a “bad” person, or any other negative action or thought! Accidents do happen and when they do, the family of both teens should be loving and supportive in whatever choices they make.

Here is the reason behind the explanation.

Trolls “Be Gone”

I have no problem with someone disagreeing with my opinions but I do expect that disagreement to be done in a respectful manner with no rude, insulting, obnoxious, and/or vulgar language. Then you have the nerve to extend those rude, insulting, obnoxious, vulgar comments to others who have left comments on my blog! You were cowardly in leaving those comments anonymously. Yes, I did call you cowards.

I have now given you an explanation of the thought behind the picture but I simply refuse to give you any more time or tolerate any more of your nonsense. I have now turned on "moderation" so when your nasty comments are received, they will be deleted. You are not worth my time and will not have a forum for your nonsense on my blog.

So now you have it, I apologize for the rant.