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Thank You One and All

Thank you to all who came to visit my little corner and leave messages during our LOL Days celebration.  You are very much appreciated!


Thank you to all who made the time to publish a special LOL post.  Found some new blogs and found some I had lost!


Thanks to the lovely Bonnie over at My Bottom Smarts who originated this wonderful event and to the very special Hermione of Hermione's Heart who organized and managed it again this year.

UPDATE:  Thank you to Bogey for pointing out to me that I had grabbed the wrong "Bonnie" link from my reading list.  My apologies to Bonnie over at My Bottom Smarts for not giving her proper credit.  The links have now been fixed.

Just a reminder, the Great Annual Cookie Exchange is coming! Jz’ will be posting the details soon.  So if you plan to participate, might want to put your thinking cap on and start considering what you're gonna share.  Of course, if you have participated before, you know that it doesn’t have to be a cookie recipe.

Love Our Lurkers 2017 Day 2

Hey y’all It's that time of year again...the day, originally created by the lovely Bonnie over at My Bottom Smarts and continued by the very special Hermione of Hermione's Heart.  The day that we bloggers set aside as a special day to show our appreciate for each and every one of you that come to visit our little corner of the world and ask that you come out of hiding ot join us in celebrating. 

So come out, come out, wherever you are and say “Hey!” or ask a question or leave a comment. 

As a reminder, since we have so many blogs participating,  we now spread LOL over two days so that everyone has a chance to visit all the participating blogs.  Isn’t that lovely!

Ya never know what your gonna find when you come to visit my particular corner…

An inspirational giggle…
 

 
A beautiful quote…

 
A ‘helpful’ hint…
 

Something more "inspirational"…

 

 
Hope that whatever I share, you enjoy your visit.

BTW…I’ve been in your shoes…lurked on different blogs...still do on a few in fact, without ever leaving a comment.  You read different blogs, maybe searching for answers or just looking for something interesting…but for whatever reason (nerves, fear, you feel you have nothing of value to say), you don’t comment.

I am inviting YOU…YES YOU to leave a comment on my blog.

You can be completely anonymous (I would ask that you use a name, doesn’t have to be your real one, so I don’t end up with multiple Anon’s when I reply) or use an alias as many in blog land do.  All I ask is that you say ‘hey’…one little word…break the ice a bit.  Of course, you are more than welcome to say more or to ask a question or two or three. LOL

But most of all…everyone is welcome here as long as they are respectful.  We are all different…we are not always going to agree…but that is what keeps life interesting.
 

BTW…ya don’t need to wait for LOL days to post a comment, question or say “Hey”…the door is always open.  Come back and visit anytime!!!!

Love Our Lurkers 2017 Day 1

Hey y’all It's that time of year again...the day, originally created by the lovely Bonnie over at My Bottom Smarts and continued by the very special Hermione of Hermione's Heart.  The day that we bloggers set aside as a special day to show our appreciate for each and every one of you that come to visit our little corner of the world and ask that you come out of hiding ot join us in celebrating. 

So come out, come out, wherever you are and say “Hey!” or ask a question or leave a comment. 

As a reminder, since we have so many blogs participating,  we now spread LOL over two days so that everyone has a chance to visit all the participating blogs.  Isn’t that lovely!


Ya never know what your gonna find when you come to visit my particular corner…


An ‘inspirational’ giggle…

A beautiful quote…

A ‘helpful’ hint…

Something more inspirational…

Hope that whatever I share, you enjoy your visit.

BTW…I’ve been in your shoes…lurked on different blogs...still do on a few in fact, without ever leaving a comment.  You read different blogs, maybe searching for answers or just looking for something interesting…but for whatever reason (nerves, fear, you feel you have nothing of value to say), you don’t comment.


I am inviting YOU…YES YOU to leave a comment on my blog.

You can be completely anonymous (I would ask that you use a name, doesn’t have to be your real one, so I don’t end up with multiple Anon’s when I reply) or use an alias as many in blog land do.  All I ask is that you say ‘hey’…one little word…break the ice a bit.  Of course, you are more than welcome to say more or to ask a question or two or three. LOL 

But most of all…everyone is welcome here as long as they are respectful.  We are all different…we are not always going to agree…but that is what keeps life interesting.

Daisy’s Turn for Answers

How long have you been doing ttwd? And could you imagine life without it?
 
Hmmm…Altogether, it’s been almost 22 years. My ex and I were together for a bit over 18 years and Matthew and I were together for a bit over 3 years.
 
As I told Roz in my answer to her questions…From all my relationship experiences, I’ve learned that I would just would not be happy or truly fullfilled in a vanilla relationship. 

So my answer, not only could I not imagine life without it, there is no way I will enter into a serious relationship unless it incorporates TTWD.  

Thanks for asking, hope this answers your questions, Daisy.

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Now please enjoy the giggles for today. 



Have now answered all the questions I received. 

You are always welcome to ask me anything you want…doesn’t matter if you’ve already asked a question. or that it’s not the month March.  You can either post them in the comments, enter them in the contact form in the sidebar or email them.

Next Up…Answers for Baker…

I have a few questions, now that I think about it. Matthew came from a traditional marriage background where others within the family participated in the same lifestyle. How was that different for you knowing others within the family were spanked too? Did it help you to bond easily to his family or was it harder?

 
DD  was something that just was part of my marriage…never really discussed…just was.  This was before the internet was readily available and I had no clue as to what DD was.


It was actually really nice for me to meet Matthew’’s family and realize that had the same type of relationships as I was used to.  I still had no clue as to what DD was and Matthew just referred to it as ‘Traditional Marriage’ when explaining what he expected.


It was never really discussed  with any of the wives but you could tell when someone came to visit, who had been spanked by how easily they sat. LOL  I’m sure there was discussion among some of them and probably would have been with me if I had been able to marry Matthew.


So when I walked in with a sore tush and sat down easily, there was never any comment or question so didn’t have to make any type of excuse. 

 

Yes...rolling my eyes was a barn burner offense when I couldn't convince Matthew I was not rolling my eyes but praying for patience.

Ronnie’s turn for Answers…

How do you prefer to be spanked?
Did you have a childhood ambition? Did you achieve it?

I always preferred the closeness of OTK but can’t have my head upside down due to inner ear and sinus issues.  So ex started holding me over his lap with my upper body laying across the bed which still allowed me the closeness of being held.

When I told Matthew I couldn’t be upside down, he preferred to lean back against the headboard and have me lay across his lap…he did like his comfort. Actually allowed me the closesness.

Either way, I was able to hang onto a pillow, which when the children were home was many times necessary to muffle the sound.

Don’t know if you would call it an ambition, but I did have a dream of being an artist…wanted to go to art school but parents didn’t believe that was a wise decision for a future.  For many reasons, I actually ended up putting my paints and brushes up for years.  Got back into it about 10 years ago but sure don’t make a living at it.

Hope that answers your questions, Ronnie.   Still have to answer Baker’s questions and hope to do that sometime this week..

Just a reminder...even though March is over, I am always open to questions anytime...so if anyone has a question...ask away.

Continuing with Answers…Jan, You’re Up…

In your spanking relationships, who made the first move to introduce ttwd to your lives. Did you have a favourite implement or one you hated? 
 
Thanks for your question,s, Jan..  Both my ex and Matthew painfully “introduced” ttwd in our relationships.  Not really any discussion other than me asking Matthew if I had “spank me” written across my forehead..


Hmmm…implements

Wood is no good,
Leather is better,
Feathers are best!
Oh and Lexan is not allowed!   

Hope that answers your questions, Jan.   Will have answers for the rest of y'all sometime this week.. 

Just a reminder...even though March is over, I am always open to questions anytime...so if anyone has a question...ask away. 
 

And we have an Answer for Roz…

Hi Cat, what do you think you have gained the most from your ttwd relationships and would you enter a vanilla relationship now?
 
Thanks for your questions, Roz. It’s funny…I gained different things from each relationship I’ve ever been in but since the last 3 have taken up a good portion of my life, I’ll focus on them.
 
From my ex, I gained a confidence in knowing someone had my back and would always protect and care for me. But due to his shenanigans, I lost all confidence in myself as a woman and lost all faith in our relationship.  It’s funny but even after everything that has gone down, I know that if I need him, he’ll be here.
 
I entered a vanilla relationship after the ex and thought we were building something…started gaining my confidence back.  Long story short…he blew it all to hell.
 
Then comes Matthew…with his help, I gained my confidence back and learned to trust again. Learned to like and believe in myself again.
 
From all my relationships, I’ve learned how important communication is to the success of the relationship.  They’ve also taught me to be super honest with myself as to who I am, my faults, likes/dislikes, wants/needs, etc.  How can I be honest with them if I’m not honest with myself.
 
From all my experiences, I’ve learned that I would not be happy in a vanilla relationship so there is no way I will enter into a serious relationship unless it incorporates TTWD.
 
Hope that answers your questions, Roz.   Will have answers for the rest of y'all sometime this week.. 

Even though March is over, I am open to questions anytime so if anyone has a question...ask away. 
 

Late to the Party

Since I'm late to the party,  I'm sure you know that March is Q&A month in our little corner of blogland.

If you have questions,  feel free to ask…I have lots of answers…no guarantee that they will match your questions but you are welcome to try.    

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Will leave you with the following giggles…

Stay!
I pulled into the crowded parking lot at the local shopping centre and rolled down the car windows to make sure my Labrador Retriever Pup had fresh air.
 
She was stretched full-out on the back seat and I wanted to impress upon her that she must remain there.
 
I walked to the curb backward, pointing my finger at the car and saying emphatically, "Now you stay. Do you hear me?"
 
"Stay! Stay!"
 
 
The driver of a nearby car, a pretty young blonde, gave me a strange look and said,…
 
"Why don't you just put it in 'Park'?"

Testicle Therapy

Another giggle from our darlin’ Ami.

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Two women were playing golf. One teed off and watched in horror as her ball headed directly toward a foursome of men playing the next hole.

The ball hit one of the men. He immediately clasped his hands together at his groin, fell to the ground and proceeded to roll around in agony. The woman rushed down to the man, and immediately began to apologize..

'Please allow me to help. I'm a Physical Therapist and I know I could relieve your pain if you'd allow me, she told him.

'Oh, no, I'll be all right. I'll be fine in a few minutes,' the man replied. He was in obvious agony, lying in the fetal position, still clasping his hands there at his groin.


At her persistence, however, he finally allowed her to help. She gently took his hands away and laid them to the side, loosened his pants and put her hands inside. She administered tender and artful massage for several long moments and asked, 'How does that feel'?


'Feels great,' he replied; 'but I still think my thumb's broken!'

The World is Mine

Today, upon a bus, I saw a very beautiful woman and wished I were as beautiful.
When suddenly she rose to leave, I saw her hobble down the aisle.
She had one leg and used a crutch. But as she passed, she gave a smile.
Oh, God, forgive me when I whine. I have two legs; the world is mine.

 
I stopped to buy some candy. The lad who sold it had such charm.
I talked with him, he seemed so glad. If I were late, it'd do no harm.
And as I left, he said to me, "I thank you, you've been so kind.
It's nice to talk with folks like you. You see," he said, "I'm blind."
Oh, God, forgive me when I whine. I have two eyes; the world is mine.

 
Later while walking down the street, I saw a child I knew.
He stood and watched the others play, but he did not know what to do.
I stopped a moment and then I said, "Why don't you join them dear?"
He looked ahead without a word. I forgot, he couldn't hear.
Oh, God, forgive me when I whine. I have two ears; the world is mine.

 
With feet to take me where I'd go.
With eyes to see the sunset's glow.
With ears to hear what I'd know.
Oh, God, forgive me when I whine. I've been blessed indeed, the world is mine.

After all, it's just a simple reminder that we have so much to be thankful for!

- Author Unknown

 
Give the gift of love. It never comes back empty!  I have been truly blessed with AWESOME FRIENDS.

Price of Friends

 

Merry Christmas to All