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Friday, January 11, 2013

What are You Missing?

"A man sat at a metro station in Washington DC and started to play the violin; it was a cold January morning. He played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, since it was rush hour, it was calculated that 1,100 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work.

Three minutes went by, and a middle aged man noticed there was musician playing. He slowed his pace, and stopped for a few seconds, and then hurried up to meet his schedule.

A minute later, the violinist received his first dollar tip: a woman threw the money in the till and without stopping, and continued to walk.

 A few minutes later, someone leaned against the wall to listen to him, but the man looked at his watch and started to walk again. Clearly he was late for work.

The one who paid the most attention was a 3 year old boy. His mother tagged him along, hurried, but the kid stopped to look at the violinist. Finally, the mother pushed hard, and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. All the parents, without exception, forced them to move on.

In the 45 minutes the musician played, only 6 people stopped and stayed for a while. About 20 gave him money, but continued to walk their normal pace. He collected $32. When he finished playing and silence took over, no one noticed it. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.

No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the most talented musicians in the world. He had just played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, on a violin worth $3.5 million dollars.

Two days before his playing in the subway, Joshua Bell sold out at a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.

This is a real story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste, and priorities of people.
The outlines were:
In a commonplace environment at an inappropriate hour:
Do we perceive beauty?
Do we stop to appreciate it?
Do we recognize the talent in an unexpected context?

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One of the possible conclusions from this experience could be:
If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world playing the best music ever written, how many other things are we missing?"
 Something to think about...

16 comments:

  1. I think we miss a lot because we are just to caught up to stop and smell the roses. What a shame.

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    1. Too true Sunny. I'm trying to make sure I don't get so caught up that I don't stop and enjoy. Still a work in progress...

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  2. I am quite sure that we are missing a very great deal. We don't want to train wonder out of our boys...like those parents dragging their children through the station....children recognize the extraordinary. I like to teach our boys those small joys, silly stuff, things people would scrunch their nose at - the groundhog on the side of the road, an interesting cloud, the way the clouds blow across the sky and catch up on the mountain, the beauty of a simple cornflower in the gutter, those teeny purple flowers that hide under blades of grass, faerie rings, the way water beads on a spider's web, how when you are quiet you can touch a dragonfly...so many little miracles all around.

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    1. So happy to hear that you are teaching your boys the small joys June. They really are so important and maybe, when they get older, they will remember and keep appreciating the little miracles even when life gets busy.

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  3. My children are always the ones that remind me to slow down:) I often don't realize till a little later, what I would have missed if I hadn't listened to them.
    Thanks Cat

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    1. Aren't they awesome in seeing the little things Bea? You're very welcome.

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  4. What a beautiful and thought provoking story. Thanks again for sharing

    P

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    1. Happy you enjoyed it P. You're very welcome.

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  5. Wow, very though provoking Cat, thank you for sharing.

    Isn't it amazing that it takes a child to see the wonders in the world that an adult doesn't even notice. I agree, we miss a lot, simply caught up in our own little worlds and hectic schedules.

    Hugs;
    Roz

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    1. Happy you enjoyed it Roz. Kids are amazing - I really love seeing things through their eyes. I'm trying hard to get back to where I slow down and look more.

      Hugs and Blessings,
      Cat

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  6. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story. As always, you are a great source of inspiration. (((Hugs)))

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    1. You're very welcome Queenie - happy you enjoyed it. Thank you for such lovely words.

      Hugs and Blessings,
      Cat

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  7. Very thought provoking. I am glad that I didn't miss this post. Seeing life through a three year olds eyes, makes one aware of those things we miss because we are always going somewhere. Hope you have a great weekend.

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    1. Happy you stopped by Blondie. I love seeing things through the eyes of children. Three year olds are just at the age where they can really start communicating the things they notice. Isn't that awesome?! ;)

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  8. Makes me sad, that we do not take time and pay attention to everything around us.
    I need to listen to this message.

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    1. Awww Minelle, don't be sad - just do as you said and listen to the message. I'm trying to stop and enjoy more but am still a work in progress... ;)

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