1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4. When you say, "I love you", mean it.
5. When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.
6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
8. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
9. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
10. Don't judge people by their relatives.
11. Talk slowly but think quickly.
12. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
13. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
14. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
15. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
16. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
17. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
18. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
19. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
20. Spend some time alone to think what you can give to this world.
Nice lessons to remember! Thanks Cat!!
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Cat,
ReplyDeleteAnd when you find a friend who listens and cares, be appreciative. So, thank you, Cat for being in my life.
Meredith
Awww thank you for such a lovely compliment Mere...thank you for allowing me in your life.
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I love these...thanks! :-)
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Good advice, thanks! I particularly liked the phrasing "don't judge people by their relatives." Knowing other family members can give you insights, but individuals are all so different and shouldn't be lumped together.
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Meg
Happy you enjoyed these Meg. Oh yes, I agree, relatives can be very different! Please don't judge me on some of my kin!!!!!! ack!
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I thought that ten commandments were many, and now you've just doubled them, Cat. Still, I like them very much. Maybe you think they are all common sense, but obviousy they aren't. 20 are too much for one day, so I'll take number 20 with me today to think about.
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Han
You're welcome Han...happy you enjoyed these. You can print them out and put them on the refrigerator or come back and take one each day.
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Great reminders Cat, I love these. Thanks for sharing :)
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Roz
You're welcome Roz...happy you love them.
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Would not the world be a nicer place to live on, if everyone followed these simple and so important rules?
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MOna Lisa
I so agree with you ML...the world would definitely be a better place if everyone followed these rules.
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Hi Cat, nice rules, I broke number six though:)
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Happy you enjoyed the rules Jan...LOL, you might have broke number 6 but I do believe you are the exception to the rule. ;)
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I think I should print this and post it on the fridge - there are some things on there that I need to always remember.
ReplyDeleteGreat idea Sunny...think we should all print this out and post it on the fridge as a reminder.
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