How do you prefer to be spanked?
Did you have a childhood ambition? Did you achieve it?
I always preferred the closeness of OTK but can’t have my head upside down due to inner ear and sinus issues. So ex started holding me over his lap with my upper body laying across the bed which still allowed me the closeness of being held.
When I told Matthew I couldn’t be upside down, he preferred to lean back against the headboard and have me lay across his lap…he did like his comfort. Actually allowed me the closesness.
Either way, I was able to hang onto a pillow, which when the children were home was many times necessary to muffle the sound.
Don’t know if you would call it an ambition, but I did have a dream of being an artist…wanted to go to art school but parents didn’t believe that was a wise decision for a future. For many reasons, I actually ended up putting my paints and brushes up for years. Got back into it about 10 years ago but sure don’t make a living at it.
Hope that answers your questions, Ronnie. Still have to answer Baker’s questions and hope to do that sometime this week..
Just a reminder...even though March is over, I am always open to questions anytime...so if anyone has a question...ask away.
Doing things we love, helps us to make a 'life'...no need to always make of living of them..hugs abby
ReplyDeleteGood point, Abby...but would love to have enough money that I could paint all the time and not interrupt it with work. ;)
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Cat,
ReplyDeleteI like the feeling of closeness during those spanking times. I know I am loved as my bottom is stinging.
Meredith
Painful but true, Mere. ;)
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Hi Cat, always better to be comfy,lol
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That was Matthew's opinion also, Jan. ;)
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Hi Cat, enjoyed reading your answers. There's nothing like otk for closeness and intimacy. I'm so glad you picked up the paints and brushes again, your artwork is awesome :)
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Roz
I agree, Roz...OTK does allow for more intimacy. Thank you for the lovely compliment.
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Cat, thank you for answering my questions. I'm with you on the closeness of a spanking. Happy you decided to pick up your brushes again, I really loved the pieces of art you shared with us.
ReplyDeleteI have a nice white sitting in the fridge right now:)
Love,
Ronnie
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You're welcome, Ronnie...thanks for asking. Yup...if I'm gonna be spanked, I want to feel him holding me. Thank you for the lovely compliment...have about 6 paintings in progress...hope to finish at least one or two soon. ;)
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Thanks Cat it's very interesting to find out about your dynamic 😊
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome, Daisy...happy you enjoyed it. :)
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Understand about the head hanging bit, so your way was always my preference too.
ReplyDeleteVery few artists make a living but it's all about doing what gives you joy, so glad you picked up your paints and brushes again.
So glad someone else has the head hanging issue, Sunny...now I don't feel like such an odd duck! Painting does give me a lot of joy...just wish I had more time for it. Thank you for the compliment.
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