And we have an Answer for Roz…

Hi Cat, what do you think you have gained the most from your ttwd relationships and would you enter a vanilla relationship now?
 
Thanks for your questions, Roz. It’s funny…I gained different things from each relationship I’ve ever been in but since the last 3 have taken up a good portion of my life, I’ll focus on them.
 
From my ex, I gained a confidence in knowing someone had my back and would always protect and care for me. But due to his shenanigans, I lost all confidence in myself as a woman and lost all faith in our relationship.  It’s funny but even after everything that has gone down, I know that if I need him, he’ll be here.
 
I entered a vanilla relationship after the ex and thought we were building something…started gaining my confidence back.  Long story short…he blew it all to hell.
 
Then comes Matthew…with his help, I gained my confidence back and learned to trust again. Learned to like and believe in myself again.
 
From all my relationships, I’ve learned how important communication is to the success of the relationship.  They’ve also taught me to be super honest with myself as to who I am, my faults, likes/dislikes, wants/needs, etc.  How can I be honest with them if I’m not honest with myself.
 
From all my experiences, I’ve learned that I would not be happy in a vanilla relationship so there is no way I will enter into a serious relationship unless it incorporates TTWD.
 
Hope that answers your questions, Roz.   Will have answers for the rest of y'all sometime this week.. 

Even though March is over, I am open to questions anytime so if anyone has a question...ask away.